The Gentle Art of Holding Space

Sep 10, 2025

Healing happens in community. Not always through grand gestures or profound wisdom, but often in the quiet moments when someone truly sees us, sits with us, and reminds us we belong.

Beyond the Professional Setting

Mental health support takes many forms. Therapy, medication, and professional care are vital parts of the picture. But there’s something equally important that happens in spiritual communities: the simple recognition that we are not meant to carry our burdens alone.

In our training cohorts, students often speak about finding something they didn’t even know they were looking for. Not answers, necessarily, but presence. A place where their struggles are met with understanding rather than advice, where their questions are welcomed rather than dismissed.

This isn’t about replacing professional support. It’s about creating the kind of community where mental wellbeing can flourish alongside it.

The Healing Power of Being Known

One of our recent graduates shared a reflection that beautifully captures the heart of this work:

“I have become more aware of myself in different ways. I am seeing the importance of daily practices and prayer. My self-worth has increased. My understanding of the divine has shifted from being all light to incorporating the dark moments too. I have more in my toolkit for dealing with adversity. There is more compassion for self and others. I realised how my neurodiversity and past wounds drive some of my responses to the world and others.” — Sam, 2024 Graduate

Her words are a powerful reminder that the journey is as much about inner transformation as it is about learning to serve others. There’s profound healing in being witnessed without being fixed.

Spiritual communities, at their best, understand this. They create spaces where people can bring their whole selves, including the parts that struggle, the parts that doubt, the parts that feel fragile or overwhelmed.

Small Acts, Deep Impact

Mental wellbeing in spiritual community often looks wonderfully unremarkable:

A text message checking in after someone has shared something difficult. The way a group naturally adjusts when someone needs extra support. The understanding that some weeks, showing up is enough, even if you can’t fully participate.

It’s the minister who remembers that September is always hard for you. The study group that doesn’t ask questions when you miss a few sessions. The community that celebrates your small victories as genuinely as your large ones.

Room for All Seasons

Traditional religious spaces sometimes struggle with mental health challenges, unsure how to hold both faith and doubt, hope and despair. But inclusive spiritual communities understand that our mental landscape has seasons, just like everything else in nature.

There are times for growth and times for stillness. Periods of clarity and periods of confusion. Moments of deep connection and moments when even being in the same room with others feels like an achievement.

Healthy spiritual communities make room for all of it.

“In the forest, some trees grow towards the light whilst others find strength in the shadows. A healthy forest needs both.” — Robin Wall Kimmerer

The Ministry of Simply Showing Up

Our ministers serve in many contexts where mental wellbeing and spiritual support intersect. Hospital chaplains who sit with families in crisis. Community ministers who offer presence during life’s most challenging transitions. Therapists and counsellors who bring spiritual awareness to their clinical work.

What unites their approach is an understanding that sometimes the most profound ministry happens not through speaking, but through the willingness to stay present when things get difficult.

Creating Culture, Not Just Programs

The communities that truly support mental wellbeing don’t just offer support groups or wellness workshops, though those can be valuable. They create cultures where vulnerability is met with compassion, where people are valued for who they are rather than how they’re doing, where belonging doesn’t depend on being fine.

This kind of culture doesn’t happen overnight. It’s built through countless small interactions, through the gradual creation of trust, through the patient work of showing people that they matter exactly as they are.

You Are Not Alone

If you’re struggling right now, please know that support is available. Your life has value, your story matters, and there are people who want to help.

  • If you’re in immediate crisis: Samaritans: 116 123 (free, 24/7) Crisis Text Line: Text SHOUT to 85258
  • For ongoing support: Mind: 0300 123 3393 Rethink Mental Illness: 0300 5000 927 Your GP or local mental health services
  • If you’re supporting someone else: Sometimes the greatest gift we can offer is simply listening, staying present, and helping someone connect with professional support when they need it.

Community, belonging, and spiritual connection can be powerful sources of healing alongside professional care. You deserve both.

If you’re interested in learning more about creating supportive spiritual communities, OneSpirit Interfaith Foundation offers training that integrates understanding of mental wellbeing with spiritual practice.

Written by OneSpirit Interfaith Foundation’s Communications and Marketing Lead, Kailee Smart.

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